2014, You Weren’t So Bad

2014 was kind of surreal. I still can’t believe it all really happened when I think about it. It was crazy from beginning to end so I am dedicating my first post in a while to this life-changing year.


I attended the Sundance Film Festival. I kicked off 2014 by attending the Sundance Film Festival in Park City, Utah, to conduct research for my Honors thesis. I wrote an extensive recap of this trip back in January, but I still can’t say enough about this experience. As this year’s festival begins, I’m so sad I can’t be there again. One day, I will return, but until then, I’ll enjoy the photos above and rewatch all of the wonderful films I saw while I was there. Also, Amy Poehler touched my hand. I need everyone to remember that.

the best

I traveled to Washington DC with my best friend. If you know me at all, I’ve probably yelled at you for not watching The West Wing. Or if you have watched The West Wing, I’ve probably scared you with the intensity of my love for the show and for Donnatella Moss. Luckily, I have a best friend who loves the show just as much as I do. So, when Allison and I were trying to decide where we wanted to go for spring break this year, Washington DC was the obvious choice. Our pilgrimage to the land of the Bartlet Administration (who is this Obama person?) was everything I wanted it to be and more. I mean, I touched the wall of the White House and a Secret Service member yelled at me. Truly a dream come true. I am so in love with this city.


I completed my thesis for graduation from the Honors College. On April 24, just two days before my 22nd birthday, I defended my thesis called “Will You Buy My Movie? A Study of the Films Purchased for Distribution at the Sundance Film Festival.” I was completely terrified, as I felt the word defense implied that I was on trial. However, my advisors were excellent and helped ease the stress of writing and defending a 43 page research paper. I can’t count on my fingers and toes how many times I almost gave up throughout the experience, but I’m happy to say I completed it and passed with honors! What a great start to my 22nd birthday weekend.


I graduated from college and watched my brother graduate from high school. WHAT?! I have a college degree hanging on a wall in my apartment. The cliche is true—my four years of college went by so quickly. Part of me misses it. The other part—the larger part—is grateful for the experiences I had at Western Kentucky University and happy to be moving on to new things. I also proudly watched as my baby brother graduated from high school and started his college career at WKU. (Special thanks to my parents for all of the hard work they put into throwing our awesome graduation party!)


I went on a cruise with my family after graduation. Aren’t we cute? This was a much-needed family vacation, and we had an absolute blast. Or we did once my brother got over his illness on our first day. We played with dolphins in the Bahamas, toured St. Maarten in a Jeep, and swam and shopped in St. Thomas. We also became close friends with our tablemates, the other Smiths, who came to visit us in Kentucky when I was home in September.



I moved to New York City. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been saying that I was going to move to NYC after I graduated from college. People tried to tell me I wouldn’t be able to get a job in the Big Apple right after college and that I would have to work for many years before I made it here. I kind of started to believe them. However, I graduated on May 17 and started my job on June 23. Did I mention this job is in an office building in the middle of Times Square? I made it, and I have to say I’m pretty proud of myself. The same week I got my first job, I met Dule Hill from The West Wing. I also now get to see my uncles Patrick and LeLan pretty frequently. Not too shabby.


I went back to Kentucky for a week in September. My company offers fantastic benefits. Seriously, I’m so lucky. One of those benefits includes quite a bit of time off so I was able to take a week in September to relax and visit with family and friends after the whirlwind summer that I had.


I had a number of visitors in the Big Apple. My parents, my aunt, my brother, my cousin, my brother’s friend, and some of my friends have all come to visit me so far. I knew I would have a lot of visitors when I moved here, but I didn’t expect so many this quickly! I’m incredibly grateful that they visit me frequently and that I’m able to live in an apartment large enough to host them.

central perk

I visited Central PerkOn October 8, I fulfilled my lifelong dream of meeting my friends at Central Perk after work. Sadly, it was only a temporary pop-up coffee shop to celebrate the 20th anniversary of the premiere of Friends, but I almost cried while I was there. They turned it into a tiny museum full of artifacts from the show. Kait, Nicole, and I even got to sit on the famous couch, and you could tell how sunken in it was from all of the days that Rachel, Monica, Phoebe, Joey, Chandler, and Ross spent on it. I want it to be in NYC permanently.


I met two of the greatest feminist icons of my generation. For $5, I was able to attend an evening with Tavi Gevinson and Janet Mock to celebrate the release of Tavi’s Rookie Yearbook 3. If you don’t know anything about these two women, I highly recommend you check them out! Tavi is only 18 years old and has accomplished more and helped more young women than I could ever dream of doing. Janet is a leader in the transgender community and wrote a New York Times bestseller that I can’t wait to read called Redefining Realness. After their conversation with each other, we were able to get our books signed and meet them. They were even more incredible in person that I thought possible.


I spent an evening with Amy Poehler and Seth Meyers. In celebration of her book release, Amy Poehler and Seth Meyers sat down together for a few hours at 92Y in New York and talked about life. The best part? I was there! My friend Kait and I bought VIP tickets for only $68, which meant we were in the fifth row and got a signed copy of Yes Please with our ticket. Amy and Seth really are the cutest friends I’ve ever seen, and Amy’s laugh can change the world. It’s the fifth time I’ve been in her presence, and I’ve walked away a happier and better person after each experience.




I spent Thanksgiving with my family and two dear friends. Jana and Trip also moved to New York City after graduating from WKU, and I’m so happy they did. While I knew them in college, we’ve gotten a lot closer since we all moved here. Having them join my family for Thanksgiving really made the holiday weekend perfect.


I went to Kentucky for Christmas. Getting to Kentucky was a tad stressful, but I made it home around noon on Christmas Eve and spent the holiday weekend surrounded by my wonderful family members. Christmas was a little different than usual due to various circumstances, but it was a merry one. How could it not be with all of those cute babies to help you celebrate?


I spent New Years Eve with a new group of friends. Back in July, I made a new friend who quickly became one of my favorite people in the world. I spent New Years Eve with her and some of her friends in Virginia, and it was the perfect end to a spectacular year.


4 thoughts on “2014, You Weren’t So Bad

  1. Sheila Stitzel says:

    Kaitlynn, this was awesome! It made me feel in some way a part of it all! Thanks so much for sharing, and I am so very happy for you! You have had one great year!! Hope there is many more to come! Lots of love, Sheila

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